All tales has what is known as a stirring event. Asking a girl out is an inciting occasion that gets the hero into action. Attraction is unpredictable; yours can be love at first sight or a gradual process. Once you want to be more than friends with that Angel, there is need for you to ask her out. Mind you gentleman, you don’t need to go the old-fashioned way to get that babe. You using pickup lines, poem and other trick are bullish*t!
Do you know that you can ask a lady out and she will say yes immediately?
How?
These tips will teach you how to go about asking out that girl that has been disturbing your dreams and messing you up mentally.
1. BE VIGILANT
Many a times, the reason why some guys are often turned down by girls is because they are not observant enough to know some things. Before you ask any girl out initially, you must confirm that the feeling is mutual. You don’t have to ask her to confirm, but you can observe her body gestures, her reaction when you talk with her; if she is always interested in talking to you or not, does she keep eye contact when speaking with you? Does she move closer to you when talking to you? These are pretty much ways of knowing that you guys have connection. In short, you have to exercise patience and observe her before asking her out, in order to avoid rejection. Do not postpone things; ask her out immediately the green light is on!
2. GIVE HER A REASON TO SAY YES
This might look absurd, but it is true. A lady will never accept a guy she doesn’t think she will have fun with. Ladies love to have fun, that’s the reason why some short sighted guys think that girls only go for money. No! You must possess a good sense of humour, be complimentary, let her see how much she do love a few hours alone with you and show her that you are a man.
3. INVITE HER ON A DATE
Here, don’t make things a big deal. You don’t have to be formal or humorous, be drop dead serious! “Miss Osinaike, will you do me the honour of accompanying me to a dinner?” This dispensation that we are, dating is casual, ladies do not like formal dating. Your job as a guy is to make things low pressure for your date. It needs to feel natural.
4. ASK HER OUT ON A HIGH NOTE
Don’t just ask her out at any odd point of a conversation, don’t interrupt her while she is conversing with her friends or when you are conversing with her, she will surely say yes if you ask her out when you are conversing with her, but you know now, make it impressive. Impressive I mean is not asking her in the presence of 200 people. Ask her out when you are saying something very funny which brought laughter to her face, then ask her out immediate you got her laughing uncontrollably. Make it seem like you are dropping a bomb, you know the boooom sound now. “ Rukayaf, I love the way you brighten up my night with your laughter, will you be my girlfriend?”, not with your mouth only but with a ring or a necklace.
What other tips do you know?
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